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“Why do you love writing so much?” Hello, my dear friends! I hope you’re having a fantastic day. I had just finished writing a few pages in my book, Confessions from Disability Limbo.
My twin brother asked the straightforward question mentioned above. Anyway, I’m getting off-topic. My brother asked because who else would willingly spend hours in front of a computer when they weren’t getting paid for it at all?
First, because I can do it all by myself, there are very few things I can do on a daily basis on my own. Once someone gave me my laptop, “The world is mine.” Just like Tony Montana wanted. The only difference is that I have no interest in drugs or world dominance. I love having access to knowledge. When I write an empty page, it doesn’t matter if I can’t clean my backside. The cursor does not pity me, or I think I am mentally delayed. In fact, it’s quite the opposite; the page cannot fill itself. It challenges you; it needs you to leave a piece of yourself behind to be shared with everyone. If what you write does not get shared, it’s only marks on paper. The same goes for art or cooking. Don’t get me wrong, sometimes you have to do stuff for yourself, but for the most part, when you do something with your heart, it’s to be shared.
My son, if your heart is wise, then my heart will be glad indeed; my inmost being will rejoice when your lips speak what is right. Proverbs 23:15-16 NIV
When I try to walk or stretch my muscles, it hurts. At the very least, it’s uncomfortable. I don’t have to answer, “How did you end up in a wheelchair?” or “Do your legs hurt? I don’t mean to offend anyone by always mentioning God, but I was recently reminded of something: God will never abandon you; he always leaves you with a gift. Making a small difference is his creation.
Even on the worst days, my body does not do what I say, and I have accidents. When my colleagues in the advocacy community think I’m a little overbearing, which honestly, I know I can be, I know I can always sit down to write and release whatever I have inside. I spend the majority of my time riding a 300-pound tank, but when I am in front of my computer, I am completely free! As always, feel free to leave comments. Thank you for letting me be part of your day. I hope to see you soon.
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