Author: Kevin Núñez

  • Unknown Future for Disabled Students

    Unknown Future for Disabled Students

    October community Blog

    An executive order aimed at “reorganizing the executive branch” has initiated a restructuring within the Department of Education so sweeping that an estimated 90% of the Department of Special Education has been cut. This is not mere bureaucratic shuffling; it is a profound threat to the educational lifeline of millions of students with disabilities and their families across America.

    The Office of Special Education Programs (OSEP) and the Rehabilitation Services Administration (RSA)—two pillars of federal support for disability education and vocational services—are being consolidated into a new “Office of Disability Programs.” While presented as an efficiency measure, this move risks diluting specialized expertise and advocacy under a broader, less focused umbrella.

    It suggests a fundamental misunderstanding of the intricate needs of students with disabilities, whose educational journeys require dedicated attention. We are not just “people with disabilities”; we are students with IEPs, individuals requiring specific accommodations, and citizens entitled to tailored pathways to independence.

    The countless parents who have fought tooth and nail for their children’s rights under the Individuals with Disabilities Education Act (IDEA). They’ve navigated complex systems, battled for resources, and advocated for individualized plans that are often the only guarantee of a meaningful education. Now, with the federal offices designed to uphold these rights being drastically downsized, what does this mean for the future of compliance, oversight, and—most critically—access?

    This prospect could leave families isolated, battling under-resourced schools, and facing an even more daunting bureaucracy. This isn’t an abstract policy change; it’s a direct assault on the promise of an equitable education for our most vulnerable students.

    This cannot and must not be allowed to become a partisan issue. Disability rights are human rights. They transcend political ideology because they speak to the fundamental dignity and potential of every individual. Every community, every family, regardless of political affiliation, is touched by disability. Access to education, vocational support, and a life of self-determination are not negotiable political bargaining chips; they are universal entitlements in a just society. When we diminish these protections for people with disabilities, we don’t just harm a segment of our population; we diminish the moral standing and strength of our entire nation. A powerful society uplifts all its members, recognizing the inherent value and contribution of all citizens.

    Therefore, we must move beyond fear and into urgent action. The immediate and paramount call to action is to educate and empower families with disabilities to navigate this perilous new landscape of disability services.

    • Stay informed, double-check all sources, and share what you’ve learned.
    • Engage with your local school boards, state disability councils, and advocacy organizations. These local entities will be on the front lines, and they need reinforced support and active participation.
    • Build new connections by reaching out to others who have not been reached before, and collective strength is the key.

    The foundation of disability education in America is under threat. By uniting, informing ourselves, and advocating tirelessly, we can protect the rights and futures of millions. This fight requires every voice.

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  • Disability & Parenting Podcast

    Disability & Parenting Podcast

    False hope can be a comforting lie, but it often leads to greater disappointment. In this powerful and incredibly honest episode, Kevin Nuñez tackles the sensitive topic of false hope within the disability community, sharing his personal experiences and why he believes brutal honesty, paired with empathy, is essential.

    Evin recounts his own childhood experiences with doctors and therapists who gave his family false expectations about “walking again,” only to face repeated letdowns He argues that this practice, often well-intentioned, can be more damaging than helpful, especially for children who internalize these unfulfilled promises as personal failures This isn’t just about physical rehabilitation; it extends to broader societal interactions where people offer empty reassurances about things they don’t understand

    This episode challenges us to rethink how we support and communicate with individuals with disabilities[cite: Kevin advocates for a balance of empathy and realism, pushing for genuine understanding over platitudes He asks why we celebrate minimal progress instead of recognizing the full, complex lives people with disabilities lead, and stresses the importance of fostering self-love and self-respect in a world that often measures worth by physical ability.

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  • Open Doors Podcast Episode

    Open Doors Podcast Episode

    We all have them, don’t we? Those big, audacious dreams we’ve held onto since childhood. For me, it was a dream of civic engagement, of being a voice for change. From a young age, I pictured myself in politics, influencing policy, and making a difference. That dream evolved into a very specific goal: to serve on a national advocacy board, to contribute at the highest level to the very movement that defines my life.

    I poured my heart into the application process. I spent countless hours writing, refining, and preparing. I felt confident, invigorated by the thought of this “dream job.” When the rejection email landed in my inbox, it was a punch to the gut. The dream, the vision I had held for so long, seemed to evaporate. It was a stark reminder that even with passion and purpose, some doors just don’t open the way we expect.

    But here’s where the story takes an unexpected turn, a turn that became the inspiration for my latest podcast episode. Just two hours after receiving that devastating “no,” my phone rang. It was an offer to serve on a different national board—an opportunity I hadn’t even considered, a door I didn’t even know existed.

    This experience brought a profound realization: advocacy isn’t about the title, the recognition, or the specific platform. It’s about being a voice for the voiceless. It’s about “planting the seed for a tree that someone else will sit under.” It’s about the relentless pursuit of a more just and inclusive world, regardless of the path we take to get there.

    This episode is a raw, honest look at the emotional rollercoaster of pursuing a dream, facing rejection, and finding unexpected redirection. It’s a vital reminder for all of us to be aware of the “windows and doors that are open,” even when they’re not the ones we initially envisioned. A “no” isn’t always a dead end; sometimes, it’s the universe nudging you toward an even better, more impactful journey.

    So, if you’ve ever felt the sting of a dream deferred, if you’re wondering what your next step should be, or if you simply need a dose of inspiration to keep fighting for what you believe in, this episode is for you.

    Are you ready to see how a “no” can lead to your next “yes”?

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  • Disability Limbo Newsletter October 6, 2025

    Disability Limbo Newsletter October 6, 2025

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  • Pop Your Bobble Podcast Episode

    Pop Your Bobble Podcast Episode

    I’ve been thinking a lot about a question that has been on my mind lately: when did we, as a society, give up our conscience for comfort? It’s a question I’m exploring in my latest podcast episode, and it’s a topic that feels more urgent than ever.

    I was recently reflecting on the world as it is now and the disturbing events we see on the news. There are tragedies that unfold in front of our eyes, like a person being stabbed to death on a train, and people just stand by and watch. This is something that would have been unthinkable not too long ago. It feels like we’ve become disconnected, isolated in our own worlds, our own bubbles.

    I’ve learned a lot about getting out of my comfort zone because of my disability. My life is a constant series of adaptations, and I’ve been forced to grow and learn every single day. I’ve realized that many people who are able to walk and move around freely aren’t really going anywhere. They might be physically moving, but they have no purpose behind their steps. They’re stuck in a place of apathy and indifference.

    This episode is my direct call to action to all of us. We’ve forgotten how to compromise and grow. It’s so easy to sit on the sidelines and cheer when something bad happens to a person we disagree with. But that’s not what we’re called to do. We should be praying for their families and remembering that we’re all a part of this together.

    It’s time for us to pop our bubbles, America. We need to remember that our conscience is more important than our comfort. We need to be a part of the solution, not a part of the problem.

    This is a powerful episode that will challenge you. Are you ready to hear what’s on my heart?

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  • Laughing with Your Disability Podcast Episode

    Laughing with Your Disability Podcast Episode

    Laughter is powerful. It can disarm uncomfortable situations and help us connect with one another on a deeper, more human level. In this episode of The Advocacy Life, I explore how embracing humor, even in the most embarrassing moments, can be an incredible tool for living with a disability.

    I share three personal stories where laughter became my saving grace. The first involves a spectacular fall at a Boston Market, a moment where my poor depth perception led to an unexpected tumble. My staff and I couldn’t help but laugh, and it became a family joke. The lesson? When you fall—physically, mentally, or spiritually—laugh, learn, and get up.

    My second story is more personal, a lesson in unexpected growth during an intimate moment with a new caregiver. It was uncomfortable, but by teaching and growing together, we built a lasting friendship.

    Finally, I recount a time when I was angry and isolated, purposely hiding from my peers with disabilities. The staff and clients at my day program played a prank on me with a speaker that made fart sounds, and it was that ridiculous, joyous moment that made me feel truly welcome. It taught me that kindness and acceptance are key to overcoming ableism, a lesson that everyone, with or without a disability, needs to learn.

    This episode is about more than just a few laughs. It’s a reminder to find the joy in the unexpected, to embrace awkward moments, and to welcome others with open arms.

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  • Letters From Limbo September 22, 2025

    Letters From Limbo September 22, 2025

    Screaming for Compromise

    September 22 2025

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    This past week, I was really disappointed in my fellow Americans. As you know by now, the political activist Charlie Kirk was assassinated. I’ll be the first to admit I did not agree with all of his viewpoints, but I did not wish Eva on him or his family. The individuals celebrating his death sickened me. There is a time and place for everything. What respect for our fellow man? Freedom of speech is not just for those who agree with you. People like Jimmy Kimmel should be canceled; that was not the time, and that was not the place. People used to watch late-night TV to laugh and unwind before bed. Certain topics should never be used for comic relief.

    Again, his viewpoints were harsh. Like every person, he said some things I agreed with and some things I absolutely did not agree with. When did we become a nation of absolutes, unwilling to compromise? He believed in the political discourse, which is what this country was founded on. There are a lot of similarities between what he did and what I hope to one day do. He started with a podcast, like I have. I have little doubt that he was running for office at some point. I would also love to do this. Would America support a disabled candidate? That is not a shame to say he loves Jesus and is willing to work with everyone. Would an elected official have a disabled advisor? Those in power need to surround themselves with all kinds of opinions, not just ones that they like.

    Brand Update

    I want to thank all six of you for taking the time to support this little content creator. I would love to see this part of my creations grow because I think it’s more fun and personal compared to my podcast and blogs, which tend to be more business-like. If you could help spread the word, I would really appreciate it. I know I technically missed last week, but I forgot that there was already a community blog published that same week. I don’t want to overwhelm you with too much content, so I’m trying to strike a balance.

    New Goal/Achievement

    This past week, we celebrated my dad’s 59th birthday. I know this is not a typical goal, but violence is a prominent blessing. So many parents have to bury their children because of violence and drugs. I’m thankful for every day we have together. Happy birthday, old man!

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    /I recently listened to the book A Time to Kill by John Grisham. The book is a little more detailed than the movie starring Seminole Jackson. Despite being written over 30 years ago, the themes are still relevant today. Here is a synopsis according to Google.

    A Time to Kill by John Grisham centers on Jake Brigance, a young defense attorney in Mississippi, who defends Carl Lee Hailey, a black man who has murdered two white men for raping and brutally assaulting his ten-year-old daughter. The trial takes place amidst intense racial tension in the town of Clanton, attracting national attention and the presence of the KKK, as Brigance navigates the case’s moral and legal complexities while fighting for his client’s life

    Ask the Audience

    Fall is officially upon us. My fantasy football league is all set up. I’m already 1-1 as of this writing. What’s your favorite part of fall?

    Quote of the Week

    “Yesterday is not ours to recover, but tomorrow is ours to win or lose.”

    Lyndon B. Johnson

    Next newsletter, October 6, 2025

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  • The Power of Disabled Siblings Podcast Episode

    The Power of Disabled Siblings Podcast Episode

    A sibling is more than just a family member; they are often your first advocate, your best advocate, and in some cases, your only advocate. The bond between a disabled individual and their sibling is a powerful and life-saving one, a truth I know all too well.

    I was born a twin. My brother, who is also disabled, is the wisest, most empathetic person I know, and even though he might need the most physical support, he is the one we all go to for advice and guidance. In this episode, I share a perfect memory of us as kids, passing a bottle of soda back and forth in a car on a hot day in Puerto Rico . It was a simple, unspoken moment of, “I got you, you got me”.

    But this episode is not just about him. It is also a love letter to my other sibling, my sister, who I was not blood-related to but who was “literally the best sister in the world”. She and my brother both held up my own light for me to see it and showed me that I was not weak or helpless. They both saved my life.

    Our parents will love and protect us, but they will be reminded every day that they have a disabled child. A brother or sister, however, will see you simply as their sibling.

    This episode is a tribute to that unbreakable bond, a raw and emotional look at the power of siblings.

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  • The Illusion of Disability Hierarchy

    The Illusion of Disability Hierarchy

    September Community Blog

    There’s no definition of “disability hierarchy,” and I think that’s on purpose. It is a construct, a trick to keep people with disabilities fighting endlessly over the same limited resources. It makes one disabled person seem “better” or “worse” than another. This artificial division only hurts us all, preventing us from focusing on the genuine problems we face.

    Everyone has things they’re good at and things they’re not so good at. That’s just how people are. When someone has a disability, these strengths and weaknesses often just show up more clearly. My life is a perfect example. I need a lot of help with physical activities every day–like bathing and getting dressed. Many people might see this as a big weakness, a sign that I can’t do things on my own. I was once told that,

    “Your life is simple because people do everything for you.”

    My experiences have taught me something important. What seems like a weakness can hide enormous strength. At habitation programs I’ve been to, I’ve met many people who could move around much better than I. They can go to the bathroom by themselves and perform many daily tasks that I can’t. But many of these same people looked to me to speak for them. They couldn’t talk to explain what they needed or wanted. In those moments, my “weakness” became their strength. My ability to speak up, to ask for respect, and to fight for what’s right became an important asset for them.

    Isaiah 45:9 NIV  “Woe to those who quarrel with their Maker, those who are nothing but potsherds among the potsherds on the ground. Does the clay say to the potter, ‘What are you making?’ Does your work say, ‘The potter has no hands’?

    This shows why the idea of a disability hierarchy is harmful. It makes us look at easy-to-see differences and judge who is “more disabled” or “less able.” But being able to do things isn’t just one simple thing. It’s a mix of physical skills, thinking skills, feelings, and how we talk to each other. Someone who needs a lot of physical help might be incredibly smart or have a spirit that inspires everyone. Someone who can’t speak might show so much through their eyes or actions.

    My journey, from needing total physical care to becoming a forceful advocate who speaks at big events and has a popular podcast, shows how strengths and weaknesses work together. My physical “weakness” has actually made my mind sharper and made me want to fight even harder for others. It has given me a way to understand and speak up for those who might not be heard.

    To move forward, we need to get rid of this harmful idea of a hierarchy. Instead of comparing needs or ranking disabilities, we must see the true worth and special talents of every person in the disability community. We need to understand that real strength comes from working together, from making each other’s voices louder, and from supporting all the different ways we give and get help. Only then can we truly unite to demand the resources and respect we all deserve. We won’t be broken groups fighting over scraps, but a strong, united force for change. This September, let’s promise to see all the different strengths in our community and say no to anything that tries to divide us.

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  • Man Talk Podcast Episode

    Man Talk Podcast Episode

    This episode is for the guys. In “Man Talk,” Kevin gets real about the unique and often unaddressed challenges of being a disabled man in America today. 


    In a society that holds a narrow view of masculinity, many disabled men feel emasculated by simple acts, like having a door opened for them. The conversation goes beyond the superficial, diving into deeper fears that are rarely discussed openly—fears about being helpless around a partner, and the anxieties that come with financial disparities in a relationship

    Kevin also tackles the ableist idea that people with disabilities should only date other people with disabilities, comparing it to an “ableistic” version of racial segregation

    He offers an honest perspective on how dating a non-disabled person means your “honeymoon phase” as a couple will be burst almost immediately when you are in public and have to face the world together.

    This episode is a confidence boost for all men with disabilities, a reminder that you are valuable and you can go after what you want. 
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