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As the crisp autumn air settles in and fall officially arrives, pumpkin spice lattes are everywhere, and leaves slowly change colors. On a chilly evening, as I enjoyed my first bowl of homemade chicken soup and zipped up my jacket, a quiet, sobering reality struck me. For many people, this time of year isn’t just about cozy evenings or family gatherings—it marks the beginning of what I call “Lonely Season.”

While the world gets ready for Thanksgiving, Christmas, and New Year’s, many individuals with disabilities—particularly those living in local group homes—are left watching from the sidelines. There is plenty of liberty out there, but far too often, nowhere to go. Many do not have family nearby, leading to a quiet holiday season without invitations, without someone to share a meal with, or without a midnight kiss on New Year’s Eve.

In America, we pride ourselves on being community-minded. Yet, an entire class of people right down the street remains largely invisible—not out of malice or pity, but out of simple inconvenience. Group home facilities sit right in our residential neighborhoods, surrounded by houses, but few neighbors ever drop by to build genuine relationships with the residents inside.

What does it truly mean to be a good neighbor?

• Share the Warmth: The next time you grab a pumpkin spice latte or a coffee for a coworker, consider dropping off a couple at your local group home. Do it not out of pity, but out of basic neighborly courtesy.
• Extend the Table: When baking bread or prepping meals for the holidays, make an extra loaf or dish and drop it off for the residents. A small gesture of connection can transform someone’s entire week.
• Practice Genuine Inclusion: Across our nation, thousands of houses of worship open their doors weekly. Yet, individuals with more significant behavioral or physical needs are sometimes subtly discouraged from attending because they might make noise during a service. True worship and community shouldn’t come with strict rules of quiet compliance—everyone deserves a seat at the table.

Disabilities do not exclude someone from being a friend, a peer, or a neighbor. As the season turns cold, let’s make sure our communities stay warm. Be a neighbor. Be a friend.

Keep on rolling, keep on living.

See you next week.

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