Disabled Dating Tips

Hey there, Today, I want to share some advice with you, even though I’m not an expert on anything specific. I thought it might be helpful to talk about something we’ve all experienced at some point: dating. But before we dive in, I want to make a couple of things clear.

Firstly, some individuals might not fully understand or grasp the concept of relationships due to their disabilities. It’s important to be mindful of this and ensure their protection. This post isn’t aimed at them.

Secondly, I didn’t start this blog to find dates. My goal is to break down barriers related to disabilities, and dating is a topic that often sparks controversy. Lastly, disabilities affect each person differently, so not everything I say may apply to everyone. With that said, let’s jump into some tips for starting a relationship when one or both partners have a disability.

‭Ephesians 6:12 NIV‬ [12] For our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the powers of this dark world and against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly realms. 

• Communication is key. Make sure to talk openly and honestly with each other. Taking care of each other goes beyond just the physical aspects.
• Don’t Fear the Disability: It might seem daunting at first, but understanding how the disability affects your partner is crucial. Don’t let fear hold you back from building a strong relationship.
• Ask Questions and Learn Together: Don’t hesitate to ask questions and learn from each other. Assuming things can create distance between you two.
• Encourage Self-Independence: It’s important for both partners to maintain their independence. Constantly challenge each other to grow and become more self-aware.
• Be Prepared for Society’s Reaction: Sadly, not everyone is accepting of relationships involving people with disabilities. Stay patient and educate those willing to learn.
• Stay open-minded: People with disabilities often have unique perspectives. Keep an open mind and embrace different ways of seeing the world.
• Find Joy in Laughter: Life with a disability can be stressful, so don’t forget to laugh together. Enjoy the good times and support each other through the tough ones.
• Love the Person, Not the Disability: If you’re in love with someone with a disability, love them for who they are, not their disability. It’s an important part of them, but it doesn’t define them.
• Seek support from the disability community. Remember, you’re not alone. There’s a whole community out there ready to offer support, resources, and understanding.
• Sex Can Work: Yes, sex can be a part of your relationship. Just communicate openly and find what works best for both of you in a safe and consensual manner.
• Remember, people with disabilities are just that—people. Treat them with the same respect and consideration you would anyone else. Take care, and feel free to leave any comments or questions below!