Kevin Núñez

Unnecessary Labels

What makes a person who they are? Is it their spirituality, is it their sexual orientation, is it their ethnicity, is it their disability, or whatever other condition they are diagnosed with? Everyone I know is on medication for some illness. Doctors love to diagnose what is wrong with us. Did you ever notice that we give them a jump start before we even walk into the office? Every time you go into a medical facility we have to put a checkmark next to boxes so they can classify us. The problem with this line of thinking is that the essence of a human being does not fit in the box. Please try something at this moment, draw a heart on a piece of paper. Now draw a box around the heart you just made. It doesn’t work, does it? Sure you can make it work, but you know it still doesn’t look natural.

“Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is—his good, pleasing and perfect will.”

Romans 12:2 NIV

According to the boxes of this world, I am a disabled, Christian, Hispanic heterosexual male. These categories all describe me correctly with one major exception, they don’t take into account how I see myself. If I don’t respect and acknowledge myself As Kevin the complete person then I cannot expect anyone else to do the same. Labels try to control us and we get so attached to them some people stop at nothing to defend them. When are we going to realize there’s more to this world? It’s something we all know, we just don’t want to accept it because our lives would become much more complicated. I know some of you out there are saying “My life is already messed up enough, I can’t afford to complicate it anymore.”

My dear friends, That is precise to the point labels are distractions not complications. Nobody is just one of these treats we are all an intersection of a thousand little things we need to step back and see the whole person. Don’t get too lost in the pieces of the puzzle you forget to look at the laptop. This world is ugly because people refuse to see the beauty in it. I hope these words helped you take a deep breath before moving on me today. May the blessings come down upon you I will see you next week.

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May 11, 2022

The Heart of the Sinner

Growing up my dad always said to me, “You were put in that wheelchair for a reason, find out what it was for.” Happy Wednesday my friends as always I wish peace and joy to whoever reads this. I want to have a continuous topic on my blog that will upset some people but I know it must be done. I want to talk about faith. There are two things I want to get clear before I begin.

First I’m not trying to show off my spirituality. I am a hypocrite like each one of us. This website is not about me but about helping others grow. I pray that my experiences will do that. It is always best to pray quietly but something is on my heart that I need to share. Second, I spiritually identify as a Christian and follow Jesus Christ. I do not belong to any church or any other religious organization. It is not my intent to offend anyone if you feel uncomfortable at any time please do not hesitate to stop reading and come back next week.

"But he said to me, “My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.” Therefore I will boast all the more gladly about my weaknesses, so that Christ’s power may rest on me." 2 Corinthians 12:9 NIV

I refer back to this verse quite a bit in all my work, that is because I believe it saved my life. Jesus saved my life but he used this verse to do it. For context, this was written in a moment of agony by one of the apostles of Jesus. We all have weaknesses that keep us from loving God as much as we all should and want to. Life is difficult and the world around us is so cold. We are all in need of that warm embrace that we don’t deserve because we have all fallen short. Even if we don’t consciously realize it we sin every day.

I love Jesus, I love being the rock for my family, I love serving others, and I never look for a thank you. Helping my family pay bills may be stressful every month. Being the deciding vote to choose who gets a $100,000 grant is not fun. I can pray for wisdom and guidance and I will not lose sleep over it. I don’t like this world disabled citizens will never have true value. I dislike being the only representative for my community in meeting with legislators. However, I have come to understand that I was given this gift for a purpose. my weakness, The thorn in my side is loneliness.

If you followed my creations for some time now you’ll know I long for a partner to share my life with. We all confuse companionship with infatuation and lust. Earthly desire is different than spiritual love. It takes time and discipline to learn the difference. Truthfully I struggle sometimes. I know and accept that I am not worthy of these gifts and salvation I have been given. I cannot earn it. I can only let Jesus change me one day at a time. Slowly I have learned to follow through with my new mission. I may stumble but he’s right there to pick me up because he loves me like a good friend.

People know there’s something more than this physical plane. What distraction is keeping you from God in your life? Thank you to God for letting me write this and thank you for reading it. See you next time.

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April 27, 2022

Get to Know Each Other

Hello everyone, let’s spend a few minutes together and escape from life. I wanted to have some fun today. I designed this website and blog to be an ongoing conversation to bridge the gaps between the disability community and the general public conversation but I can only give you one perspective. I need you guys to get involved as well, Therefore I came up with this list of questions for anyone who takes the time to read it. Feel free to answer all questions or as many as you feel comfortable.

"My flesh and my heart may fail, but God is the strength of my heart and my portion forever.
Psalms 73:26 NIV"

This should be obvious, can someone give me an accurate description of what it’s like to run?
It always takes me about an hour and a half to get ready for the day with the help of others. How long does it usually take you to get ready for the day?
What is the first thing you think of when you see someone in a wheelchair or some other visible disability?
Do you put your socks on before or after you put your pants on? I never really have a choice, so I never really thought about it.
I know I need help in the bathroom; I have to inform people. Why do people always announce it when they leave the room?
Every parent wants a “healthy” child, what exactly is that to you?
What exactly is so “inspirational” about people with disabilities?
We live in a world where physical appearance is idolized, what is so hard about looking at the person?
Why do people want to spend so much time alone on the toilet? Balancing is tricky for me. I want to get off of that thing as soon as possible. Why do you want your leg to go numb?
How long can you stand up before you feel tired?
How long can you sit down before you feel tired?
What’s one physical activity that you’ve always wanted to do? My list is a little long.
What’s one fear when you socialize or date someone with a disability?
f you had my disability what would be the one thing that scares you?

I hope this made you laugh, or at the very least give you something to think about. Do you have any questions for me? That you want me to answer in a blog? See you next time. Have a great day.

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April 20, 2022

New advocate in Washington DC

Mr. Paul Aronsohn is New Jersey’s first Ombudsman on intellectual and developmental disabilities. Do any of you know what an Ombudsman is? I thought he was just another bureaucratic pencil pusher. His job is to help people and families navigate the complex disability system. I have been fortunate to work alongside the ombudsman for the last few years in my Journeys as an advocate. I admire his position constantly juggling his appointed positions by the governor’s Administration and fighting for the rights of individuals and families at the same time.

“Do not forget to show hospitality to strangers, for by so doing some people have shown hospitality to angels without knowing it.” Hebrews 13:2 NIV

On a personal note, this position would be my dream job. There was recently some good news from his office that I needed to share with us possible. it gave me a good kind of envy I was not asked by any organization to publish this.

“Signed into law by Governor Chris Christie in January 2018, the Office was made operational when Governor Phil Murphy appointed the first Ombudsman a few months later.The legislation creating the Office outlines specific responsibilities, which can be grouped into 3 categories:

Assisting individuals and families to navigate New Jersey’s system of care to get the services and supports they need and deserve;

Working with individuals and families to identify opportunities for improving the system; and

Helping to ensure that the voice of individuals and families is heard in a meaningful way in decisions that directly affect them as well as in larger policy discussions.”

The Garden State does not have the best reputation on the national stage. sadly we are known more for Jersey Shore and trash TV. on the subject of disability, I believe this state has not led any significant category on a spreadsheet. Thanks to Mr.Aronsohn that has changed, We made it to the White House. The Ombudsman The President’s Committee for People with Intellectual Disabilities. (PCPID)

“In 1966, President Lyndon B. Johnson established The President’s Committee for People with Intellectual Disabilities (PCPID), formerly The President’s Committee on Mental Retardation, to ensure the right of a “decent, dignified place in society” for people with intellectual disabilities. Since that time, PCPID has served as a federal advisor to the President and the Secretary of Health and Human Services on matters relating to persons with intellectual disabilities. PCPID promotes policies and initiatives that support independence and lifelong community inclusion. ACL provides oversight and support for PCPID.”

I truly feel that his recommendations will be common-sense solutions to problems we have had for too long. I strongly suspect that New Jersey can make a good conclusion Thank you Mr.Aronsohn for your service. Have a wonderful day everyone. As always all comments are welcome and feel free to contact me at any time.

Source Material:

https://www.disabilityombudsman.nj.gov/

https://acl.gov/programs/empowering-advocacy/presidents-committee-people

Biden Names Picks To Serve On Disability Committee

https://www.whitehouse.gov/briefing-room/statements-releases/2022/03/11/president-biden-announces-key-appointments-to-the-presidents-committee-for-people-with-intellectual-disabilities/

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April 13, 2022

America’s Cancer

I want to start this post with this thought, some of you may not agree with me at all, but I think it speaks to the greater point. Everyone praises the freedom of speech granted to us by the first amendment of the US Constitution. I use it every time I click publish on one of these blog posts. I know there are people out there who don’t like what I have to say, and that is perfectly fine with me. These freedoms are guaranteed for all American people, not just the ones that agree with you. For the record, I did not vote for former President Donald Trump, but I believe it was wrong to have his Twitter account removed. We both have the same freedoms.

Pray that I may proclaim it clearly, as I should. Be wise in the way you act toward outsiders; make the most of every opportunity. Let your conversation be always full of grace, seasoned with salt, so that you may know how to answer everyone.
Colossians 4:4‭-‬6 NIV

Everything is being canceled! from Dr. Seuss to Mr. Potatohead. Everything is offensive to someone else. Do we need to learn to communicate telepathically? This way we can get rid of all social media platforms and no one would get offended. There’s something I don’t understand, if we live in a Democratic Republic government where everyone gets a vote, then why are individuals being censored for their thoughts and ideas as if we lived in a socialist government? So many people have been put in Facebook Jail” because some algorithms do not agree with the post. Their freedom of speech was suspended without due process. That doesn’t sound very American to me. Cancel Culture is not a movement it is a cancer-killing the American dream.

I think we’re living in the early days of the actual life of Hunger Games. For those of you who live under a rock. The Hunger Games is a series of novels and movies where a young lady leads the rebellion against a totalitarian government in a dystopian future. In the movie’s surprise ending the protagonist kills The president of the new rebellion after learning she was planning to enact some of the same policies as the old regime, ensuring that everything would truly start fresh. I’m not saying that we should all go practice our archery skills in case we get called to represent our districts, but things are occurring that I feel we should be worried about. I do not mean this to be a political blog and I am bipartisan all the way. I love this country with all my heart. Someone like me could thrive nowhere else. Everyone picks on Jeff Bezos because he’s a multi-billionaire, but thanks to Amazon I was able to publish my first book and have it shipped all around the world. Yes, they take a percentage of my profits but how long would it take someone with my disability to print just one book? It is not a question of convenience it is a matter of accessibility.

America does not have the best past, but if we erase it all then how are future generations supposed to learn from it. Education is how we stop Ignorance, bigotry, and hate. If you spill a glass of milk, throwing out the milk carton does not get rid of the smell that was left by it. Only cleaning it up can do that.

Why would you waste the milk that was still left in the carton? Just like black history needs to be taught in school, so should disability history. Children should know why the N-word is wrong. They should also learn why the R-word is wrong. Disability doesn’t care what color you are on the outside. It can be the ultimate equalizer.

So don’t take down statues of Confederate soldiers, take the children to see them and tell them what was wrong. Then take them to the Institutions and let them hear the stories of those who were abused and still are being abused. We all need to learn real tolerance and appreciation for someone’s struggles, not just appeasement. It’s okay to disagree, it doesn’t make the other person “the bad guy.” We all deserve dignity and respect. Ask any singer or actor. There will always be hate and ignorance in this world that does not mean we have to lose respect for others On a purely human level. May God bless you and enjoy the rest of your week.

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April 6, 2022

Walk of Destiny

The following post is an excerpt from my book Confessions from Disability Limbo released in the summer of 2021. Please enjoy.

Hello good people I hope everyone is staying safe. I recently remembered something the other day and I had to write about it. Walking has always been a very interesting subject for me. The short answer to your next question is no, I cannot walk officially. It takes so much energy to get my muscles to do stuff they don’t want to do. When I walk I usually throw up or pass out. I can only do it in short distances and in a therapeutic setting where it is safe. The following anecdote is pretty much the only exception.

My father’s little sister was getting married. I have lots of aunts and uncles but this seems like something I have to do. I wish I could tell you there was some overwhelming reason that drove me to do this. I just knew from the moment she announced her engagement I had to walk down the aisle. She wanted her only nephews at that point to be part of the wedding. Just like Rocky before the big fight, I spent months getting my body ready. This was going to be the longest I had ever and whatever walk.

I was never one of those kids who hated dressing up but there was a huge difference between walking in a pair of sweatpants and doing it in a brand new suit. There is something you need to understand about my “walking.” It’s a complete illusion. I can only step with one leg, the other one drags behind, just like a zombie on TV. Then I pull the backward-facing walker to keep my balance. The secret sauce however is my orthotics that stabilize my legs into one position so they don’t buckle.

I have no idea what I had for dinner yesterday but it has been over 20 years since this event and I still remember every step. I know for my family members seeing the 10-year-old little boy walk was more important than seeing the bride on that day. No one had ever seen me walk before. The reversal was easy enough.

My mother would set me up at one end and I would walk to my father at the end of the aisle. There was only one little hitch. The velcro holding my legs to the Orthotics was wearing out. Normally, this is not a big deal, it happened to me all the time. We would stop at the store and slap on new velcro. With all the hustle and bustle we never made it to the store.

The velcro lasted a total of 3 steps before it gave away and I had no support or stabilization whatsoever. I remember the church felt huge and it was incredibly hot. I started out walking pretty strong on pure willpower. I remember swallowing just a little bit of vomit. Halfway through I hit the wall hard. I start to see black. The church seemed empty. I have no doubt I almost fell at least twice.

“For we live by faith, not by sight.”

2 Corinthians 5:7 NIV

It is funny, as a child you go to church but it’s difficult to understand the true meaning of God. I know now that was the only way I made it through that walk. I must say I’m not trying to force religion on anyone but God never abandons us and this was the first time I deeply felt his presence. I collapsed in my dad’s arms when I got there. Don’t ask me how the service was. I was in exhausted hay sipping on a bottle of water. As for my aunt and uncle, they are happily married with two of my favorite cousins both ready to go off to college.

I hope this story can show people you can do whatever you want. The disability will be there always but it does not have to stop you. Thank you to anyone who read through this all the way and have a wonderful day.

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March 30, 2022

A Proud Podcaster

Hello beautiful people, your favorite little blogger is back. I decided when I relaunched this blog I wanted to dedicate a little time to the content creation process. People think it’s easy when they like our posts and leave comments. I am not an influencer and I will never be the best blogger in the world. I just want my work to reach the right people. No one realizes the amount of effort it takes to put part of yourself out there continuously. In the hopes of helping someone in one way or another. Whether it’s youtube, Instagram, blogging, or podcasting I just want to say thank you and congratulations for all you’ve done.

For now, I want to shed some light on a lady named Jennifer Briney, the host of Congressional Dish. My absolute favorite podcast. To be clear she has not sponsored me or asked me to write anything about the show. We have never met or collaborated in any way. Every once in a while she will comment or like one of my tweets and I will have a complete nerdgasm. Some of you may know I attempted on two separate occasions to do a podcast of my own for disability awareness. for me, a 15-minute episode took about an hour and a half to produce the final product. I cannot imagine trying to record two episodes a month for almost 10 years as she has pretty much done by herself. That amazes me! In today’s world, to have any kind of Project last that long.

“whose tongue utters no slander, who does no wrong to a neighbor, and casts no slur on others;
Psalms 15:3 NIV”

Here is the description of the show directly from her website:

“Congressional Dish is a podcast that since 2012 has been aiming to draw attention to where the American people truly have power: Congress. From the perspective of a fed-up taxpayer with no allegiance to any political party, Jennifer Briney will fill you in on the must-know information about what our representatives do AFTER the elections and how their actions can and do affect our day to day lives.”

Click here to read more

Her podcast is completely independent of any commercial influences as she depends on donations from her audience to produce the program. Briney begins each show by stating that she has no allegiance to either party. I believe her because each episode is over an hour-long without any commercials. All claims made on the program are backed up by sources that she listed throughout the entirety of the episode, including a list of show notes for the audience to see for themselves. I first glance the show is about politics but in my humble opinion, It gives us a window into our society and our culture. I don’t always agree with her conclusions and opinions but she always leaves me something to think about.

I have secretly compiled a mountain of research over the years That proves corporate overlords make their money by keeping people with disabilities locked in poverty. The general public doesn’t realize this Someone with her neutrality would be able to do an episode on this issue. If by any reason she happens to read this I promise I’m not trying to make you do any more work than you already do. It would just be a cool idea Americans need to be aware of the responsibilities we all have to stay Americans. Below I will list a few of my favorite episodes for you guys to check out. Once again thank you all for your time and see you next Wednesday.

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March 23, 2022

Ensure Privacy for People with Disabilities

The following was written as an Op-Ed advocate for pending legislation in New Jersey in February 2022. Hope you enjoy and have a good day

My name is Kevin G. Nuñez I am a thirty-four-year-old Puerto Rican male living with Cerebral Palsy. Ensuring and protecting the rights of people with disabilities is what I have been doing my entire life. I immigrated with my family to New Jersey at the age of four. Due to the nature of my disability, I use a wheelchair as my primary tool to live my life. I have my daily struggles to overcome and try to live my life the best way I can. I need to use this platform to bring attention to an issue that does not enter the public consciousness when it comes to the disability population.

Like most individuals with disabilities, I use the assistance of a Direct Support Professional (DSP) with my personal needs daily. When I want to visit my family, I must take a three-hour and twenty-five-minute flight. Despite what Hollywood movies might have you think, the bathroom on the plane is not large enough to fit two people, or even one person using a wheelchair. After I use the restroom at the airport, I am the first person to board the plane. I do not move for the duration of the flight. Finally, I am the very last person to get off the plane. I can guarantee you it is not comfortable at all. By the time everyone gathers their belongings and gets off the plane another thirty-five to forty-five minutes has gone by.

At this point, Mother Nature has my full attention. When I get to the next accessible bathroom, there is always someone in the handicap stall; peacefully stretching their legs in a space they don’t need to be using because they don’t have a disability. This leaves me with two options. The first is to wait until they’re done and at best get a halfhearted apology. My second choice, I am forced to relieve myself in the corner of the restroom by exposing myself and urinating into a plastic urinal bottle. Females with disabilities do not have the same luxury.

Thanks to Assemblywoman Carol Murphy a Bill was introduced that requires business owners to put up signs on these specific bathroom stalls to discourage people from using them inappropriately. Provided there is more than one stall. The Accessible Restrooms Sign Bill (A467/S1239) Needs to be made a priority, This is a human rights issue! It has gained bipartisan support. We are still awaiting committee review in the New Jersey state legislature. This legislation secures dignity and respect in this private moment that all humans should have.

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March 16, 2022

Subconscious Genocide

Hello once again, I hope your Wednesday is going well. The reason I wanted to wait till March to relaunch my blog is that March is known as disability awareness month in the United States. It’s usually seen as a celebration of how far our community has come in the last few years. I want to use this opportunity and this platform to bring attention to those of us that have been forgotten. Not everyone can post on Instagram or come up with a fancy new hashtag. Those of us who can speak must stand for those who have no voice.

A few weeks back in a nursing home In Sussex County New Jersey Just under 200 individuals with various disabilities were found locked away in horrible conditions. According to reports linked below, countless rooms smell like urine and feces. By the time most of you are reading this the world is probably moved on to the next story and lawsuits have already been filed what about the people themselves? What are their stories? Has their suffering ended or did they just get transferred from the facility where they’re still going to be abused? I know the system is overwhelmed and understaffed but that said the reason why this happened. Instead of Googling the latest TikTok craze, I asked that you take a few minutes to investigate this. This is not an isolated incident. I think what hurts the most, is that this situation keeps recurring. The coronavirus pulled back the curtain on this horror show.

Generalizing something like this happens, when an individual with an intellectual disability suffers a stroke. They do not recover fully and because the system does not have enough medical group homes They are forced into these programs that cannot meet their needs accordingly. Having a disability is not equal to aging. I once knew a man who went through this exact scenario at 55. participants from his day program were the only visitors. I am saddened to say he’s no longer with us. I believe he didn’t make it to his 60th birthday. This took place years before there was a global pandemic. Who you think anyone went to his funeral?

“Blessed are the merciful, for they will be shown mercy. Blessed are the pure in heart, for they will see God.” Matthew 5:7‭-‬8 NIV

There are plenty of systemic issues because the system is not centered on the person It’s focused on protecting itself from lawsuits and avoiding blame at all costs. The human service industry In its entirety at a given point took on its own life force. It has become a runaway train coasting down the track. What can we do to stop it? I don’t have the answer to that but I can tell you we need to focus on the little things. There’s no reason why the staff cannot take the clients out on a walk. I’m not exaggerating, read the articles for yourself.

The reason why this subject hits so close to home is, I know If it wasn’t for my family This could have been me. Imagine going to bed but never being able to get out of it. We don’t see value in people with disabilities. I tried to think of a creative comparison, It’s not like prison because they have committed no crime. It is different from slavery because no one is benefiting from their silent pain. We have created a subconscious genocide by ignoring those who need us the most. Wake of America!

Source Material:

https://www.nj.com/news/2022/02/nearly-200-people-are-locked-down-living-in-inhumane-conditions-at-nj-nursing-home-advocate-says.html

https://www.nj.com/news/2022/02/residents-lives-at-extreme-risk-feds-say-as-they-threaten-to-essentially-shut-down-troubled-nj-nursing-home.html

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March 9, 2022

Coming Back from Everything

Salutations and best wishes I look forward to our time together. After a few months of hiatus, I decided to relaunch my blog and website. I know some of you probably wondered if I died. I can assure you I am very much alive and I feel better than ever. Just like this website I took a few months and redesigned myself. I invite you all to please click around and check out all the features. I know there isn’t much but all the important stuff is there. I’m going to use my life as an example but I don’t want this to be a blog about “Kevin and his disability” I want to focus on the human experience and help others grow spiritually and mentally. The world is tough enough as it is I hope for a few minutes every week, I can take you out of it. to find a little extra something.

"Neither do people light a lamp and put it under a bowl. Instead they put it on its stand, and it gives light to everyone in the house."'
Matthew 5:15 NIV

For all my new followers here is a quick synopsis of who I am. My name is Kevin G. Nuñez. At the moment of this writing, I am 3/4 of the way to my 35th birthday. That sounds weird to say, worse to stop and think about. I want my writing style to come across as a conversation between friends. I want to talk with you as the reader not talk at you. I was born and diagnosed with a developmental disability Cerebral Palsy. It is a neurological condition That affects the spinal cord in the brain. The single gets sent from the brain down my spinal canal but somewhere along the line, there’s a disconnect. Turn a key in a car, but it dies at the point of ignition. This is the best conversion I can make. I’ve been privileged to serve on various committees on both the state and national levels to ensure the rights of all people and families affected by disability. Before you ask I have not been paid for the representation I have done to this point. Not all labor should be done for financial gain. If you want more information on this aspect of my life please check out my advocacy resume on the about me page.

Doing the same activity over and over expecting different results Is the definition of Insanity. So, What makes this website different than other blogs? To start with I have changed the name. It always irritated me to have my name on the website. I couldn’t think of any other names. I know the URL is the same but that’s only for lack of funds. I want to focus on the quality of blogs instead of quantity. There was a time when I was publishing two blog posts a week, a podcast episode, and publishing my first book all at once! By the time the book was posted on Amazon for purchase in July I was creatively exhausted. This time I will be posting only once a week on Wednesdays for 26 weeks out of the 52 week year. from March 2022 To March 2023. I’m still going to be writing every day I’m currently working on a follow-up to my book.

I will periodically drop book excerpts. In addition, I have all my original posts from the last website. So there will be plenty of content throughout the entire year. A steak is always better than a hamburger, right?

Each post will focus on a different aspect of disability life and spirituality. challenges in life are not always bad, sometimes we need them to persevere in our circumstances. the disability community is still second-class citizenship. I hope we can change this by starting a dialogue after each post. I welcome all comments and feedback. If you guys want me to cover a specific topic please let me know. I can’t wait for our next conversation.

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