The Advocacy Life Podcast & Blog

Category: Disability Awareness

  • Physical Disability Not Included

    Physical Disability Not Included

    If you could hide one part of yourself what would it be? I think everyone has that one thing in real life that they’d rather not have to deal with daily, what if temporarily you can live without it? Hello, once again readers. Before I delve into the topic of this post I have to admit to a guilty pleasure, I like to watch the reality TV show Big Brother. Don’t judge me, please. Just in case you’re not familiar with the show, the premise is that 16 people are locked in the house together and go through crazy challenges to eliminate each other. At the end, when only two remain, those that are eliminated vote on the winner. That is an oversimplification but you get the idea. I published this post last year but it’s something that families need to talk about at the dinner table.

    From one man he made all the nations, that they should inhabit the whole earth; and he marked out their appointed times in history and the boundaries of their lands. Acts 17:26 NIV

    I’ve always liked the show and I like the idea that someone like me could actually compete in the show. I know I could probably not compete in a lot of the competitions, in fact at a simple glance there were only a few I could easily adapt to make it fair for me or someone like me using a wheelchair. I didn’t finish. To be clear this show has really shown a lot of diversity in its casting before, we even had a past winner on the autism spectrum. In season 23 I felt more hopeful than ever as the runner-up won a significant financial prize without winning a single competition advancing only on his strategic and social game. At the finale one of the contestants who voted on the winner revealed that she was on the autism spectrum. However, she did not want to disclose it as she wanted the other contestants to know just her as she was as a person. This made me feel very mixed emotions.

    24-year-old BrittanyD’Angelo came off as a very spunky and energetic young lady who was a friend to all. While I admire and fully understand why she would choose not to disclose her disability, I couldn’t help but feel a little hurt upon hearing this. Please understand me, part of me was truly happy for Brittany. People with disabilities should not have to disclose any part of a disability if they don’t feel comfortable and I know she’s not ashamed of her disability. As much as I have come to understand why I was given this disability over the years, there were still days growing up when I wished I could have gotten out of my chair and played football with the other kids. Even as an adult at least twice a week I have a scenario where I say to myself  “regular people don’t have to deal with this.”

    What D’Angelo did was still a tremendous accomplishment and I am absolutely not trying to put her down in any way but I have to ask, is what she did really fair? I know it’s not right every time one of us has a chance to be seen in public to represent the entire community and I argued against inspiration porn in past blogs but if we want to be seen as equals by society then why are we hiding our disability? So many people on the spectrum could never hide it, even the past winner couldn’t hide his own disability. If someone like me enters the Big Brother house I would have to roll in there with my entire chair and a caregiver for my personal needs.  I would have to ask the housemates for help with various tasks throughout the day Which would force the contestants and the viewing public to separate the person from the disability. In a way it’s hard for me because I can’t hide my disability, there’s nothing wrong or shameful about invisible disabilities. They do exist and they should be learned about by the public at the discretion of those who live with them. I just wanted to give people something to think about. The disability life can be very complex. See you guys next time and God bless you.

    Sources:
    ‘Big Brother 23’ Houseguest Britini D’Angelo Reveals She Has Autism

    https://www.forbes.com/sites/jenniferpalumbo/2022/01/25/how-one-cbs-big-brother-houseguest-is-promoting-autism-acceptance/?sh=516951619f72

  • Javier Robles Leeds covid-19 Memorial

    Javier Robles Leeds covid-19 Memorial

    Hello my friends, please allow me to welcome you back to another blog. In my last post, I highlighted a disability advocate named Bill Byrne. This week I want to honor another one. Mr. Javier Robles is a professor at Rutgers University and a fierce disability advocate. His work represents everything I as an advocate aspire to be.

     Let me take a step back. We in the disability community always feared some sort of public emergency like Covid-19 because we knew the system was overloaded and pushed to the breaking point. Years before the public started wearing masks. My fellow individuals in group homes we’re worried about a shortage in personal protective equipment. Before the pandemic staff would wash gloves after using them because there weren’t enough for the individuals in day programs. I would go visit folks in nursing homes that had some sort of disability after having a stroke. Knowing full well they were too young to be placed there. 

    Mr. Robles decided to do something about it. He’s the leader of the Disability Action Committee (DAC) after the outbreak they published a report identifying all the gaps the policymakers and decision-makers overlooked. I will be sure to add it to the sources below for you to read for yourself.

    Therefore encourage one another and build each other up, just as in fact you are doing.
    1 Thessalonians 5:11 NIV

    The world decided on its own that the COVID-19 emergency is over. Javier in late September spirited a memorial at the New Jersey state house for those of us who passed away along with our caregivers.

    I still can’t believe I was chosen to represent the New Jersey Council on Developmental Disabilities (NJCDD) at this event. I don’t see myself as a great man. I try to stay humble. If you ask me, I didn’t deserve to be there. I was ignorant of the greater disability community. There was only one other boy with Cerebral Palsy that attended mainstream classes in my entire School district. When I was growing up my approach to life was so laid back that I am now ashamed of it. I knew of Mr. Robles’ work along with his colleagues. I even emailed him and his team on more than a few occasions. I had to fight just to enter college. This man has hundreds of students listening to him every week. The lesson I learned that day as if you see a problem coming, don’t complain about it, find a way to solve it. Thank you Javier for mentoring the next generation.

    Sources:

    NJ_DAC_Initial_ReportDownload

    https://sas.rutgers.edu/news-a-events/news/newsroom/faculty/3399-javier-robles

    https://www.mycentraljersey.com/story/news/state/2022/09/20/trenton-nj-disability-community-rally-covid/69495352007/

  • Who is Bill Byrne?

    Who is Bill Byrne?

    Quick question to all my readers, Do you know the name of your town mayor?  I’ve lived in the southern part of New Jersey for almost 15 years now and I have no idea who he or she is. I’ve been advocating for my disability community officially since September 2016. I just move on to the next meeting trying to speak for those who cannot speak for themselves. Advocates and disability allies never acknowledge the work we do. We just keep going. There is an international disability community, we all work together to ensure dignity and respect for all regardless of circumstance. The New Jersey Council on Developmental Disabilities (NJCDD) hosted their Community Building Awards An event that is held every few years to honor leaders in the disability population.

    Earlier this week I was left speechless When I met a real-life disability hero, Mr. Bill Byrne. I’m ashamed to say this but I did not grow up training or believing in disability rights. I had a very laid-back approach and let my parents do everything. I didn’t begin to discover my voice until well after I was 18. people like Mr. Byrne were rockstars to me. Everyone knows of Madonna and The Beatles for example. At least in New Jersey and in some national circles, That’s how people describe Bill to me. Here are some of his accolades:

    1. He is friends with Mayor Dorothy of Morristown, NJ. He regularly attends town council meetings.
    2. One of the biggest advocacy organizations used to be known as the Association for Retarded Citizens. Thanks to Mr. Byrne and his colleagues There now known as just The Arc.  
    3. He petitioned the New Jersey government to have the words idiot, insane, and retard removed from the state constitution In the early 2000s. 
    4. He sits on many state, local, and national boards.
    5. A proclamation was passed in his township that declared August 16th as Bill Byrne’s Day.

    Yes, I knew he was receiving the Colleen Frazier award for Self Advocacy from the NJCDD weeks before the event. I am the vice chair of the NJCDD to be transparent. (They’re not sponsoring this article or any work that I post on this website.)  It never occurred to me that I would see him there or sit at the same table as he did. I didn’t realize it until he came to shake my hand. This gentleman who had been raising awareness for disability issues since before I had braces talked to me like  I was the next-door neighbor that he had known for years. So often I get frustrated because my work is not good enough for my perfectionist standards. I know we can all relate to that. We are so focused on tangible results, that we forget about the personal touch. Bill has mastered the personal touch.

    “If I must boast, I will boast of the things that show my weakness. The God and Father of the Lord Jesus, who is to be praised forever, knows that I am not lying.”2 Corinthians 11:30‭-‬31 NIV

    This man who cannot read or write and I’m sure has been put down by others, was so humble and passionate. The first words he spoke when he got up to the podium were to praise and Thank God. As a new Christian, this was the first time I completely understood the mission! All his work meant nothing to him without God. Mr.  Byrne from one disability advocate to another, I thank you for showing me the way. You reminded me of what matters. I pray these words can help someone else. Thank you for reading I will see you next week.

    Sources:

    https://patch.com/new-jersey/morristown/bill-byrne-gets-his-day-in-the-sun

    Bill Byrne, champion of the ‘differently abled,’ to be honored by Morristown mayor and council
  • Supporting the Disability Workforce

    Supporting the Disability Workforce

    By Jesse Schwartzman

    month we celebrate October as National Disability Employment Awareness Month
    (NDEAM). NDEAM was declared by Congress in 1988 to spread awareness and the
    contributions of people with disabilities while at work. People in the disability community want to
    work and are ready to work now more than ever with small businesses, corporations, and our
    own government looking to hire workers. Work should always include equal pay for equal work.
    I am glad this month is here to bring awareness because there is still so much that needs to be
    done in NJ and across the country. As reported on page 12 of Advancing New Jersey’s
    Employment First Report, of the individuals receiving day and employment services from DDD,
    only 14% are in integrated employment services, which is the eighth lowest in the nation.
    Competitive integrated employment (CIE) is having people with disabilities earn the same pay
    as others without disabilities. It means those with disabilities can work where people without
    disabilities work. Across the country, the employment rate for adults with disabilities over the
    age of 25 is bleak. Among the population ages 25 to 54, around 36% of people with a disability
    were in the workforce, compared to 80% of those without a disability. For workers ages 65 and
    older, 7.3% with a disability were in the workforce, compared to 21.7% without a disability.
    Since the onset of the pandemic, now hiring signs are present at most businesses, and
    corporations are now not only making commercials to get consumers to buy their products, but
    they are also attempting to get consumers to work for them. According to a survey of 1,100
    businesses by Goldman Sachs 10,000 Small Business Voices, 90% of businesses that are
    hiring are finding it difficult to recruit qualified candidates for open positions. In March,
    employers advertised a record 11.5 million job openings. The United States now has two job
    openings for every unemployed person. The business community at large needs to work with
    the disability community so more job openings can be filled by individuals with disabilities.
    Common misconceptions such as believing every person with a disability needs a workplace
    accommodation, are false. According to a U.S. Chamber of Commerce study, only 14.5
    employees with disabilities request workplace accommodations. According to that same study,
    companies with the most inclusive workplaces for employees with disabilities experienced
    nearly 30% higher revenues and greater economic profits.
    In NJ work is being done to get more people with disabilities jobs. New Jersey Governor Phil
    Murphy, has signed four bills that should improve the employment rate for people with
    disabilities in NJ. S3455 Revises eligibility requirements for NJ Workability Program and
    Personal Assistance Services Program. This means individuals with disabilities on Medicaid can
    continue to receive services while starting or continuing to work without an income cap or age
    cap. Bill S1937 signed by the Governor in 2021 establishes a task force to promote employment
    by state agencies for people with disabilities, Bill A5294 signed by the Governor this year,
    provides fast-track hiring and advancement employment opportunities by the state for persons
    with significant disabilities. Lastly, Bill A5296 signed by the Governor this year provides for
    employment by the state of certain persons with disabilities. All four have yet to be implemented
    and we hope that Governor Murphy’s administration gets to work on the legislation.

    October is National Disability Employment Awareness MonthDownload

    Source

  • An Interabled Love Story Part 1

    An Interabled Love Story Part 1

    Happy Wednesday wonderful friends. I’ve been a blogger for a few years now, but people don’t know it because I relaunched my website in March of 2022. As part of that relaunch, I wanted to focus on sharing the stories of other disabled content creators.  I recently had a chance to catch up with Margaret and Charlie two very good friends of mine. I can’t wait to share the latest interview I had with them but before I do It’s important to reintroduce their story to all my new followers. Below is the first interview I have with them back in the spring of 2020. You can read more about the story on their blog Just interabled Things. Come back next week to learn more about their story.

    “Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.” 1 Corinthians 13:4‭-‬7 NIV

      Margaret and Charlie are an interabled couple from New York.  For those of you who don’t know “Interabled” is the term used when one of the partners in the relationship has some sort of disability and the other is “normal.” Charlie is diagnosed with Cerebral Palsy like me. In some ways, the disability community can be very small Charlie and I started networking after I discovered his blog with Margaret. Anyone who knows me would tell you that I’m not the kind of guy who falls for sappy love stories. I can’t tell you the last romantic comedy I sat down to watch. They are usually reserved for background noise. The reason I fell in love with their story was simply that it was real and not Hollywood fiction. They provide hope for those of us in the disability community on a very taboo topic, disability, and love. Thank you to Margaret and Charlie for participating in this blog. I hope we can all learn something from it. Love Is Love.

    Please tell all of us how you met.

        – We met on an app called Hinge. I (Margaret) had joined Hinge on Sunday and wasn’t sure if I was going to keep the app for long because I was never a fan of the whole online dating thing. Monday morning I checked my phone at work and saw a message from Charlie and we spent the whole day talking. 

    What first attracted you to each other?

        — Margret: I fell in love with Charlie’s smile. If I am being honest, I still fall for his smile every day. 

        — Charlie: My disability was not the first conversation we had. Margaret wanted to know who I was other than my disability.

    Name one annoying habit about the other that you would not change.

        – Margaret: Charlie likes to sleep impossibly close to me, but I honestly can’t imagine not sleeping, literally holding each other. 

        — Charlie: I was never a person who naps. Margaret loves her naps and I now love them, all thanks to her.

    How do you know it was love and not just some passing fling?

        – Margaret: The second time we FaceTimed, we sat there for almost 6 hours talking. We never ran out of things to talk about and the conversation just felt natural.

        — Charlie: I don’t want to be cliche but I am going to anyway, it was when I woke up the second day after we matched and she was still there.

    What would you tell someone starting an interabled relationship?

        – Margaret: Keep an open mind, do not let their disability scare you off, and don’t be afraid to ask them questions about what they need help with. It is not for everyone, not everyone is meant to date someone with a disability, and society is not ready for it either so you will get looked at, you will get asked if you’re their aid or their sibling even and people will stare, just let them.

        — Charlie: Come in with an open mind, get to know them more than their disability but realize that their disability is still a part of who they are.

    Some people would say that people with a disability should only date other people with disabilities because only they will understand. How do you respond to that?

        — Margaret: I would say that you don’t need to have a disability to completely understand if you are able to put yourself in their shoes. 

        — Charlie: I personally wouldn’t date another person with a disability, we would both need help that we couldn’t give each other.

    There is a misconception that Margaret must have sacrificed everything to be with Charlie. What do you think about that?

        – Margaret: It is definitely a misconception. There really isn’t anything that I have had to sacrifice to be with Charlie. The only thing really is that when we are getting ready for the day or to go somewhere it takes longer because I have to get Charlie ready and get myself ready, but we have gotten it down to a system and it does not even take that long anymore, especially our weekday mornings when I have work.

    Is being Charlie’s main caregiver a burden?

        – Margaret: I would say no. The caregiving aspects of our relationship to me are just more things for us to do together. Being in an interabled relationship brings a whole new level of intimacy to the relationship.

    I apologize for this question, you guys do NOT have to answer it. I’m just asking it because I know someone will ask it. It is Nobody’s Business. I would never ask a stranger but I wanted my blog to be real. Can you have sex and are you both satisfied?

     Both   – Yes and yes, that’s as detailed as that’ll ever get, I get people being curious but our sex life is just for us.

    What do you guys see yourselves in the next 5 years?

    Both — I would say that we want to be living in a different state, be married, and have a few dogs. 

  • Amazing Advocacy Moments

    Amazing Advocacy Moments

    Hello, before I begin I want to send each one of you a very big hug. Every so often I get asked what I do for a living. I don’t always have a correct answer because being a disability advocate is not a traditional job. Even if it was there wouldn’t be a lot of money in it. with a labor of love, it’s not always appropriate to stop and reflect on your achievements because you’re always moving on to the next mission that needs to be completed. Over the last few weeks, I have been fortunate to see some of the fruit of my blessings from God. This is not me bragging but stopping to smell the roses please take a minute and go with me on this journey. I will be back with a traditional blog post next week.

    "Since we live by the Spirit, let us keep in step with the Spirit."
    Galatians 5:25 NIV

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    https://njcdd.org/financial-slavery/
  • Financial Slavery

    Financial Slavery

    I’m a 35-year-old single male with a developmental disability. I’m a capitalist and I love this country but I am financially suffocating. I am writing this on July 5, 2022. The day after this great nation celebrated its independence. This is the land of the free, the home of the brave, and most of all opportunity. Individuals like myself are never given this opportunity. I don’t believe in complaining. I support small businesses and I admire corporations like Google, thanks to the dictation software on this Chromebook I can give you blogs like these. I would like to showcase how expensive it is to live with a disability. I want to focus on two specific numbers $2,000 and $3,000. 

    One person gives freely, yet gains even more; another withholds unduly, but comes to poverty.
    Proverbs 11:24 NIV

    As an individual, the maximum I’m allowed to have in my bank account is $2,000 at any one time. If I were to get married that’s when I am eligible to make $3,000, The reason why no one is in a rush to get married with a disability? You cannot have more than $3,000 between both partners. Most disabled Americans and the majority of non-disabled know these numbers. What people don’t realize is these numbers have not been increased since 1983 by President Ronald Reagan. According to the national price index, the current inflation rate is 8.6% The monthly maximum Federal amounts for 2022 are $841 for an eligible individual and $1,261 for an eligible individual with an eligible spouse. Every asset except for the house you live in will count against you. Most of my colleagues with disabilities including myself do not make the maximum the average amongst people I know is approximately $500 a month. The majority of Americans have invested in some form of stocks.  People with disabilities cannot afford this luxury. 

    The average accessible vehicle is $60,000. For me to sit in my chair and be the advocate that I am every day costs $50,000.  I need 24/7 personal care. To receive my care I must remain Medicaid eligible. All I have to do to maintain my eligibility is stay below the poverty line. I am not an economist but something seems out of balance with the American dream. There are programs like Able Accounts and Special Needs Trust Funds that will allow disabled Americans to save but they are very complex and restricted. New Jersey also just updated its WorkAbility program In January of 2022 but as of July of the same year, the signed law is still not been implemented. Instead of circumventing an already overloaded system, if you raise the asset limit to $10,000 per individual, we will ensure that people with disabilities can contribute to this country’s economy. If we don’t fight for financial freedom, then some Americans will always be slaves.

    Note:

    This was also featured in the disability in the Disability in Focus Blog run by the New Jersey Council on Developmental Disabilities:

    https://njcdd.org/financial-slavery/

  • The History and Future of Disability Pride

    The History and Future of Disability Pride

    As Americans, there are certain days we all recognize when we look at our calendars. Independence Day, Labor Day, Memorial Day, and Martin Luther King Day.  future generations of students will be taught about Barack Obama and Juneteenth. We have such a rich history to learn from and be proud of. However, there is a particular group of heroes that have been neglected. The time has come to acknowledge what they have done and call a new generation of advocates into action.

    Rosa Parks and Jackie Robinson are names every person in this country knows. Unless you have a disability, names like Judy Heumann, Brad Lomax, and Katie Cole are foreign to you. These proud patriots are some of the leaders of the protest that has come to be known as the 504 Sit-in.  Starting April 5, 1977, approximately 150 individuals with various disabilities occupied the Office of the U.S. Department of Health, Education, and Welfare in San Francisco for 28 days.  To require enforcement of The Rehabilitation Act that was signed into law a few years earlier. For nearly a month these brave people risked their lives. Going without medication and personal care. You would think after such an effort You would see change begin to happen, but it took 13 years to see any tangible evidence of equality.

    Blessed are the peacemakers, for they will be called children of God.
Matthew 5:9 NIV

    Let’s talk about July 26, 1990. Without using Google most of the population are unaware that this is the day the Americans with Disabilities Act (ADA) was passed. This legislation means much more than handlebars in the bathrooms and curb cuts on sidewalks. It guaranteed civil rights for individuals with disabilities. There is a misconception that because of this law All the problems of the disability community are solved. Earlier this week the Department of Justice filed a lawsuit against the Chicago Cubs and Wrigley Field for significant violations after a multi-year renovation project. How long must we remain an afterthought?

     In the mid-1980s journalist, Geraldo Rivera did a series of stories exposing the horrific treatment of individuals in Developmental Centers.  Earlier this year a nursing home in Sussex County New Jersey made national headlines for having our most vulnerable citizens in inhumane conditions leading to death and malnourishment. Over 200 humans were locked away without committing any crime and deprived of due process. I love this country and I am a proud American but advocates like myself Can no longer stand by while we sponsor second-class citizenship. That is not in the Constitution I studied.

    Did you know that there is a disability pride flag? The colors are a separate concept from the rainbow flag identified with the LGBTQ community. The five colors represent the different needs and experiences of the individual. Mental Illness, Intellectual and Developmental Disabilities, Invisible and Undiagnosed Disabilities, Physical Disabilities, and Sensory Disabilities. The month of July is known as disability pride month, but what exactly is disability pride? I was asked this question a few days ago, and this was my answer. “Disability pride is loving and accepting yourself, even though the world will not.” 

    Ken Capone leads the charge to end sub-minimum wage in segregated workshops. In the year 2022, they are still legal.  Emily Voorde is a female with a disability. She is the Associate Director for Disability Community Engagement in the White House. Their tireless efforts are never seen.  New Jersey has its own coalition of heroes.  Keith Jones is a disability activist, award-winning author, and former presidential candidate. Project Freedom helps individuals obtain accessible housing. Their founder Norman Smith has a disability.

    The inscription on the Statue of Liberty reads “”Give me your tired, your poor, Your huddled masses yearning to breathe free, The wretched refuse of your teeming shore.””  This was written in 1883 139 years later and people like myself Can’t read it, because of all those steps. 

    The next generation of disability advocates must not rest. We need to rise up and continue the work that has been laid before us. In January of 2022, Governor Murphy signed a law updating New Jersey’s WorkAbility program, as of July of the same year the legislation is still not implemented. With these updates, Disabled New Jersey residents would be able to earn a competitive wage, pay taxes, and keep their health benefits. By entering the workforce people who can work can support those with more complex medical needs. If we invest in more medical group homes we can avoid tragedies like the one mentioned above. This would create more jobs for caregivers and relieve stress on the overwhelmed disability care system. On the national level, We must end the marriage penalty and raise the $2,000 asset limit set in 1983. America cannot become the land of opportunity until all Americans have a chance to thrive.

    Note: every advocate mentioned Is very well known. It is very easy to learn more about them if you just take the time

  • Disability Burnout Solutions

    Disability Burnout Solutions

    Have you ever felt burnt out? That’s what I want to talk to my readers about today. This is one of those posts that I’m going to love to write but someone is either going to say I’m mentally unstable or completely naive. I’m writing this because I know I’m not the only one. I’m not depressed, I’m actually in a very good mood right now.  Life is complicated. We all know that it’s how we compartmentalize those complications that matter. ask any mom if they have all locked themselves in a bathroom for 15 to 20 minutes just to get a break from their kids that they love more than anything. Any father has been known to blast the nastiest music when the kids step out of the car just because they’re tired of listening to Baby Shark. There is a day of the week that we’re supposed to rest and not do any work. Whether we take advantage of it or not is a whole different story but the day is there regardless. I can’t rest. I have disability burnout!

    “aren’t you sitting down in your wheelchair, so how can you be tired?” Let me be clear I absolutely and unequivocally love my life. I don’t want to change it. I love answering kids’ questions in public, even though their parents can sometimes be jerks. My father, who is my primary caregiver, can be one of the funniest people in the world. That doesn’t mean I don’t feel like a burden sometimes when I can see he is exhausted after taking me back and forth to doctor’s appointments.  I thank God every time I get a chance to write a policy for those who cannot speak for themselves.  My eyes still get tired at 11:30 at night when I’m still looking through my emails.  Being broke is not fun but I’ve never gone hungry or gone without a roof over my head. I don’t need to get married tomorrow but it would be nice to be truly missed by someone special when they had a bad day. getting that look that says “ I want you right now!”

    The hardest part about having a disability it’s not all the physical things I can’t do myself. is the fact that there will never be any days off. I don’t get to walk on Sundays. It’s not like losing 10 lbs by going on a diet. all the physical therapy in the world can only do so much, and I love my physical therapy sessions. Some parts of my body hurt every day. except for some breakthrough in science I am most likely going to die with this Cerebral Palsy I was born with. thinking about all this is and can be exhausting. There is a very difficult but simple way to handle this paradox.

    “We who are strong ought to bear with the failings of the weak and not to please ourselves. Each of us should please our neighbors for their good, to build them up.” Romans 15:1‭-‬2 NIV

     All you have to do is not deny it at all but refuse to dwell in it. Instead, you look at all the light that is around you and all that you can do for yourself. it could be as easy as reading these words or having them read to you.  giving up is easy finding great ways to continue that’s the challenge. That begins every day, isn’t that worth living for? I love you all, have a great day friends.

  • July is Disability Pride Month

    July is Disability Pride Month

    By Jesse Schwartzman

    The following statement and subsequent article are written and produced by Jesse Schwartzman He is a tremendous disability advocate who formerly worked on Governor Philip Murphy’s reelection campaign in New Jersey I hope you all enjoy his fresh perspective.

    Progress has been made but it is not enough. We are at least 15 percent of the population but do you see people with disabilities integrated into society?
    It is time to uplift voices and bring our own seats to the table.
    Look to your left and your right disability can be hidden and happen anytime.
    The intersectionality is insane.
    Be kind to everyone, especially yourself.
    Do your best and improve at least 1 percent each and every day.

    https://njcdd.org/personal-touch-and-why-it-matters/